The one who gets the whale

When I started this blog I had every intention of posting every week, or a few times a week. But life happens as I like to say. I don’t know how frequent posters manage to update their blogs every week because I, for one, can’t do it. Or at least do not have the energy to do so. My default status is to hide behind my books. So I’m trying to live amongst the people once again despite all the disappointments I’ve had lately with people. Hell is other people, I always think.

My grand plan of moving out of my place into a new one by tomorrow failed miserably. Not only did I realized I made a grave mistake of wanting to room with a not-so reliable person, a greedy landlord is holding my deposit + my first and last months’ deposit in her greedy little hands. She met with me and she was a nice, cordial person.  She met with my future roommate and she wasn’t so nice, or so cordial. My future roommate bolted on the transaction and left me holding a bag of crap, so to speak. The landlord won’t give me my money back, all $2800 of it, because according to her, she lost money when I bolted from the agreement. Her other option was to charge me rent for 10 months. As of this writing I’m still waiting for her check to clear. I don’t know if there’s a check that was actually deposited in my account but for now, I’m saving all her text messages saying she deposited my money back, just in case, you know, I have to go to small claims court.

I have tuition fee to pay for, by the way. All $1715 of it, and I’m waiting to get my money back so I can pay for my tuition fee. U have 8 credits left for my BA degree and the stress of not knowing if I’m able to pay for that is eating away at me. Did I mention this month was a giant ball of expenses and bills? I went to a routine dental check-up and by the time I left, I paid $270 for future treatments. I don’t know how I went from a $30 prescription toothpaste to a procedure which costs $210. Thank god for my top-of-the-line insurance, the bill would have been close to a $1000. I don’t know whether I really needed the procedure or whether they saw I have $1800 in insurance benefits left and saw $ and heard the cash register ding.

Sometimes, I really don’t know anymore.

It’s tough being an adult in a greedy, capitalistic country. Did I mention I had to have repairs done on my car, and same thing, I don’t know whether it’s necessary or people just need to hit their sales goals? This is why I like working in food; I’m not forcing people to go without the necessary stuff if they don’t want to.

This is why I’m holding out on my place. For a small amount I live in a safe neighborhood with friendly landlords and roommates. It’s not the most glamorous living arrangement but I like having the extra cash cushion.

Amidst all of this I’m looking at jobs outside my field and all I want to do is cry—$10 an hour for an editorial job in a newspaper near and dear to my heart; ten whole dollars for my labor. I looked at a very interesting job opportunity for a non-profit but it only pays $200 a week. $200 a week. My rent is $550 a month, without a trust fund I don’t how I’ll be able to eat or pay for gas.  I need to stop looking at job ads because all I want to do is cry, and I get this sour feeling in my stomach.

I’m graduating in exactly 2 weeks. I still have summer classes but still, I’m graduating in 2 weeks. I started college when I was 17 and I finally made it out at 28. I can tell you that this diploma means a lot more to me than all these kids whose parents paid for college. I don’t know if my degree will open up an fiscally-viable doors but this is my Everest, my Moby Dick, and finally, I’m the one who gets the whale.

Last night, because I can’t sleep, I sent my application for a short course program at the state university. It’s a 3-credit class and I have no doubt in my mind that this 3-credit class will crack open some doors that are sealed from my sights. Who knows? If I like this class, I might keep going until I have a whole new batch of skill sets that I never had before. That, to me, is the most exciting prospect of all.